Bikini body “ready” or not…here I come!

If I was told that I couldn't but I did then what does that mean? If the day still moved on and memories were made and fun was had then what exactly did I miss out on by not being "ready"? 


Yes, actually.

Caution: The following post contains images that some viewers might find highly offensive. Unflitered family vacation photos. I am exhausted. The family just spent the last 4 days in Corpus Christi for our very first family vacation!! It's been a minute so let me catch you up on the latest. We had a baby 3 … Continue reading Yes, actually.

Sexiness isn’t about flawlessness

This journey has allowed me to explore various topics that have been largely driven by you. Yes, you. The wonderful people who make up this community. What I have learned from you is that there is a STRONG desire to have intimate conversations but you don't quite know how to. There's so much shame that … Continue reading Sexiness isn’t about flawlessness


Stretch marks, scars, sex, and substance

I can't know the number but I do know that someone out there is struggling with their intimate life. Specifically a new mom who can't for a second actually believe that she can ever have a happy sex life again. Hopefully she finds and reads these comments from women from all over the world who know EXACTLY what she's going through. 


Facing Fears on a Tuesday

The thought came effortlessly but getting the words out did not. Not even close. I felt so ridiculous for even thinking it. How could THAT be the one thing I wanted to do with this opportunity? This is when I stick to the promise I made to myself whenever I found myself in this situation...


Dear New Pregnant Me From Old Pregnant Me

Dear Ana, Congratulations! It's been 10 years but you've decided to go down this road again. Please let me be the first to remind you of a few things: No one else gets to do what you do so do what you need to do for yourself. Everyone's journey is so vastly different that even … Continue reading Dear New Pregnant Me From Old Pregnant Me


Happy 2 Year Anniversary: Lessons Learned

Welp. I couldn't think of a more motivating reason to write a blog post after almost a month. This happened earlier this month:   BAM! All of my goals and fear met at one time! Also, I can't believe Eminem's daughter is now in college... Where does the time go? When I began this journey … Continue reading Happy 2 Year Anniversary: Lessons Learned