Happy 3 Years of Rebellion

3 years ago I had a tugging on my heart. The tug was to share my story. To share my struggles. To share how I came to this amazing conclusion that the things I wanted weren't out of my reach just because someone insisted on telling me it was. I've always wanted to be me. … Continue reading Happy 3 Years of Rebellion

Sexiness isn’t about flawlessness

This journey has allowed me to explore various topics that have been largely driven by you. Yes, you. The wonderful people who make up this community. What I have learned from you is that there is a STRONG desire to have intimate conversations but you don't quite know how to. There's so much shame that … Continue reading Sexiness isn’t about flawlessness

Stretch marks, scars, sex, and substance

I can't know the number but I do know that someone out there is struggling with their intimate life. Specifically a new mom who can't for a second actually believe that she can ever have a happy sex life again. Hopefully she finds and reads these comments from women from all over the world who know EXACTLY what she's going through. 

Dear New Pregnant Me From Old Pregnant Me

Dear Ana, Congratulations! It's been 10 years but you've decided to go down this road again. Please let me be the first to remind you of a few things: No one else gets to do what you do so do what you need to do for yourself. Everyone's journey is so vastly different that even … Continue reading Dear New Pregnant Me From Old Pregnant Me

Happy 2 Year Anniversary: Lessons Learned

Welp. I couldn't think of a more motivating reason to write a blog post after almost a month. This happened earlier this month:   BAM! All of my goals and fear met at one time! Also, I can't believe Eminem's daughter is now in college... Where does the time go? When I began this journey … Continue reading Happy 2 Year Anniversary: Lessons Learned

Body Positivity for the Business Woman

If I spend hours working on my appearance first then what time do I have left to exploring my real gifts and talents? If your energy is being invested in your education what is your return and is that return greater than the return on the energy invested in your appearance?

The Fear in Finding Myself

What did happen is that I have found my light. I am allowing it to shine in whatever way it's supposed it. I am allowing ALL of the parts of my journey have their time in the spotlight. I share my successes as well as my failures. I let love take the lead. While I not so secretly remain afraid this will all fall apart, I am enjoying the life love is building for me a hell of a lot more than the one fear ever did. I'm calling fear out every chance I get and every time love has won.